Maintaining connections with other people is a major factor in optimal aging.  In this section, a number of contributors share their ideas and research on maintaining healthy relationships and establishing new ones. 


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The Four Most Important Words to Say in a Dysfuctional Organization by Richard Bergstrom


(Connections   June 3, 2023)
Everything about the organization was crazy-making…
Topics: Communication • Coping • Dysfunctional, Broken • Relationships


A Plate of Rigatoni with Friends by Garrison Keillor


(Connections   March 30, 2023)
True friendship means not feeling obliged to impress each other and so we don't. . . .we see that we're all in the same boat, the equality of old age prevails. Health is what matters, not money, not prestige…
Topics: Attitudes • Communication • Contentment, Satsifaction • Family • Memories • Optimal Aging • Relationships


The Old Man's Lecture: Manners (Boring) by Garrison Keillor


(My World   March 2, 2023)
It was a beautiful little scene of civility…
Topics: Civility • Communication • Relationships • Social Issues • Travel


I Am Giving Up Anger, So Should You by Garrison Keillor


(Connections   January 26, 2023)
I am trying to give up anger. It’s poisonous and it has no effect other than to make the angerer feel bad and perhaps do something truly stupid…
Topics: Advice, Guidance & Mentoring • Attitudes • Character, Integrity • Communication • Optimal Aging • Relationships


Enough of That, Let's Talk About Happiness by Garrison Keillor


(Connections   April 21, 2022)
To create laughter out of ordinary tedium is a privilege. There’s nothing better.…
Topics: Communication • Contentment, Satsifaction • Humor • Relationships


Forget About Nut Cases, Let's Talk About What's Real by Garrison Keillor


(Connections   April 14, 2022)
There’s a lot of gossip and envy and animosity out there, don’t kid yourself, so all the more reason to hold fast to your friends…
Topics: Communication • Family • Optimal Aging • Relationships


Skating Together by Greg Asimakoupoulos


(Rhymes & Reasons   February 12, 2022)
Pairs skating is not just for the Winter Olympic Games…
Topics: Character, Integrity • Communication • Inspiration • Love • Metaphors, Life Lessons • Relationships • Sports


Love, Marriage, Sex . . . by James N. Watkins


(Connections   February 10, 2022)
Jim updates his annual list of top posts, cartoons, and a video for Valentine's Day 2022…
Topics: Communication • Compassion • Contemplation, Insight • Holidays • Humor • Love • Relationships • Social Issues • Valentine's Day


A Foolproof Recipe for Dealing with the 'Turkeys' in Your Life by Greg Asimakoupoulos


(My World   December 2, 2021)
Dealing with the 'joy thieves' who steal your sense of well-being and rob you of peace of mind…
Topics: Character, Integrity • Communication • Faith • Holidays • Holiday Season • Memories • Relationships • Thanks, Thankfulness, Thanksgiving


Two Suggestions for Dealing with So-Called 'Conceited' People by Ken Potts


(Connections   August 28, 2021)
It's a matter of perspective…
Topics: Attitudes • Communication • Coping • Psychology, Psychological Health • Relationships


Ways to Strengthen Your Relationship by Amy Fleming / The Guardian


(Connections   July 30, 2021)
Take nothing for granted, communicate clearly – and say something nice every single day…
Topics: Attitudes • Communication • Love • Relationships


Sensitive Care from Others Makes Pain Easier to Bear by Ken Potts


(Health & Wellness   June 21, 2021)
Even persons suffering from severe physical trauma or illness have been shown to suffer less pain if medical treatment is accompanied by emotionally sensitive care…
Topics: Communication • Compassion • Friends & Neighbnors • Grace • Inspiration • Learning • Relationships • Wellness • Wisdom


You're Apologizing All Wrong by Simran Sethi / Life Kit


(Connections   June 19, 2021)
Here's how to say sorry the right way…
Topics: Advice, Guidance & Mentoring • Attitudes • Character, Integrity • Communication • Learning • Relationships


With Praise to 'St. Arbucks' by Greg Asimakoupoulos


(Connections   June 7, 2021)
. . . and the fellowship so many find there…
Topics: Business • Communication • Coping • COVID-19 • Faith • Friends & Neighbnors • History • Lifestyle, General • Personal Issues • Relationships • Social Activities


The Best Way to Make New Friends is to Be a Friend by Ken Potts


(Connections   June 5, 2021)
The answer to a pre-teen's question applies to all of us, no matter our age…
Topics: Attitudes • Change • Communication • Friends & Neighbnors • Lifestyle, General • Relationships • Social Activities • Wellness


Humble Thoughts on 'Gay Pride' by James N. Watkins


(Connections   June 4, 2021)
June is “Gay Pride” month. So, this month—and every month—I want to honor God and his Word while loving my LGBTQ(IA+) friends…
Topics: Civility • Communication • Compassion • Current Events, News • Diversity & Pluralism • Faith • History • Racism and Inequality • Relationships • Social Issues • Social Movements


Sometimes Grandma Gets in Your Face by Barbara Greenleaf


(Connections   May 21, 2021)
A granddaughter is moved from annoyance to laughter…
Topics: Communication • Family • Grandchildren • Humor • Parenting, Parents • Relationships


Zooming in On Someone Else by George Garrison


(Connections   April 1, 2021)
A Maundy Thursday look at what the pandemic has done to the way we focus our lives…
Topics: Civility • Communication • Contemplation, Insight • COVID-19 • Easter • Faith • Love • Relationships


The Gift of Influence by Leona Bergstrom


(Connections   March 5, 2021)
Every woman has a story to tell…
Topics: Communication • Inspiration • Optimal Aging • Relationships • Tribute, Testimony • Trust


Keep 'Em Rolling by Barbara Greenleaf


(Arts & Entertainment   February 20, 2021)
Grandparents play a positive and prominent role in latest Business-Minded Teen novel…
Topics: Choices and Decision Making • Communication • Education • Learning • Relationships • Work


Love, a Word Often Overused by Ken Potts


(Connections   February 11, 2021)
. . . but it is seldom understood…
Topics: Communication • Holidays • Language, Meaning • Love • Relationships • Valentine's Day


A Pandemic Debt by Barbara Greenleaf


(Connections   December 19, 2020)
What do our children owe us in the pandemic? …
Topics: Communication • Coping • COVID-19 • Family • Loneliness • Relationships


Love Your Neighbor? by Dan Seagren


(Senior Moments   November 14, 2020)
It's a good time a revive the ideal of loving our neighbors as we love ourselves…
Topics: Beliefs • Bible • Communication • Compassion • Language, Meaning • Love • Relationships • Values


When We Last Spoke by Rusty Wright


(Arts & Entertainment   October 22, 2020)
Kid's dreams, family secrets, forgiveness…
Topics: Communication • Family • Forgive, Forgiveness • Optimal Aging • Parenting, Parents • Relationships


Take Time to Listen by Ken Potts


(Connections   September 19, 2020)
Don't just talk—advice for parents (and grandparents)…
Topics: Communication • Family • Parenting, Parents • Relationships


Talking to People You Disagree With by Megan Phelps-Roper / TED ideas


(Connections   September 12, 2020)
4 tips to help bring civility to a polarized world…
Topics: Character, Integrity • Choices and Decision Making • Civility • Communication • Language, Meaning • Politics • Racism and Inequality • Relationships • Social Issues


God is on our side! And theirs? by James N. Watkins


(Connections   September 3, 2020)
Finding civility in a polarized society…
Topics: Bible • Civility • Communication • Current Events, News • Faith • Grace • History • Love • Racism and Inequality • Relationships • Social Issues • Social Media


I Stand for Folks of Color by Greg Asimakoupoulos


(Rhymes & Reasons   August 15, 2020)
What it takes to color our world with kindness…
Topics: Communication • Compassion • Crime, Justice, Punishment • Faith • Grace • Racism and Inequality • Relationships • Social Issues


Changing Racist Hearts by Rusty Wright


(Connections   June 15, 2020)
Can it be done?…
Topics: Beliefs • Communication • Crime, Justice, Punishment • Current Events, News • Faith • News • Racism and Inequality • Relationships • Social Movements


Will You Still Say Hello? by Stu Johnson


(Connections   March 29, 2020)
Connecting in a time of social distancing…
Topics: Communication • Coping • COVID-19 • Crisis • Current Events, News • Disease • News • Relationships • Wellness


Healthy Relationships by Ken Potts


(Connections   October 20, 2019)
It's hard, but so worth the effort…
Topics: Character, Integrity • Choices and Decision Making • Communication • Relationships • Wellness


Helping Men Find the Key to Intimacy by Ken Potts


(Connections   June 23, 2019)
Finding a solution to a common problem…
Topics: Communication • Dysfunctional, Broken • Relationships • Wellness


Responding to Those Who Suffer by Greg Asimakoupoulos


(Rhymes & Reasons   October 27, 2018)
Lessons from Job when tragedy strikes…
Topics: Comfort & Consolation • Communication • Compassion • Inspiration • Relationships


Loneliness by Stu Johnson


(Connections   April 17, 2018)
A problem that often increases with age…
Topics: Communication • Compassion • Lifestyle, General • Loneliness • Optimal Aging • Relationships • Retirement • Social Activities • Social Issues • Social Media


Coming Together by Dan Seagren


(Senior Moments   January 28, 2018)
Making common cause of solving society's puzzles…
Topics: Communication • Relationships • Social Issues • Unity, Unified


Humility by Stu Johnson


(Connections   January 10, 2018)
Something to be proud of?…
Topics: Attitudes • Character, Integrity • Christian Life • Communication • Lifestyle, General • Relationships • Values


8 Things Never to Say When Your Friend Hurts by Bill Nichols


(Connections   December 1, 2016)
Do you know what to say when someone is in serious emotional and spiritual pain?…
Topics: Comfort & Consolation • Communication • Relationships


Friendship by Emily Sohn / submitted by Stu Johnson


(Connections   July 13, 2016)
Why it matters…
Topics: Communication • Friends & Neighbnors • Relationships • Research • Wellness


Uniting the Charlie Browns by Wes Wick


(My World   January 12, 2016)
Lessons in unity as I take down my 'Charlie Brown' Christmas tree…
Topics: Christmas • Communication • Faith • Holidays • Metaphors, Life Lessons • Relationships


Communication by Dan Seagren


(Senior Moments   July 5, 2015)
As a jolly ol' senior, thirteen years shy of a century, there are ways of communicating I don't do…
Topics: Communication • Computers (and other Digital devices) • Science & Technology • Social Media


Valentine, How do I Love Thee? by Rusty Wright


(Connections   February 8, 2015)
Fun—and funny—stories about love and communication…
Topics: Communication • Love • Valentine's Day


Welcome to the Book of Face by Greg Asimakoupoulos


(Rhymes & Reasons   February 9, 2014)
Celebrating Facebook's 10th Anniversary…
Topics: Communication • Friends & Neighbnors • Internet • Social Media

Strangers Among Us by Dan Seagren


(Senior Moments   May 12, 2013)
To celebrate our 54th wedding anniversary, we traveled 50 miles to spend a night at a century and a half year-old hotel.…
Topics: Communication • Friends & Neighbnors • Opportunity

When Granny Listens by Dan Seagren


(Senior Moments   February 21, 2010)
Seniors are sometimes easier to talk to than mom and dad. Listen in…
Topics: Communication • Drama • Family

Lessons from the Love Birds by Greg Asimakoupoulos


(Rhymes & Reasons   March 29, 2009)
What Les and Leslie Parrott teach about commitment…
Topics: Communication • Family • Tribute, Testimony

Is Letter Writing Passe? by Dan Seagren


(Senior Moments   November 11, 2007)
Are there better ways?…
Topics: Change • Communication • Computers (and other Digital devices) • Science & Technology • Trends

Is Silence Always Golden? by Dan Seagren


(Senior Moments   October 7, 2007)
Wisdom from a long life about the art of being philosophical…
Topics: Communication

The Art of Listening by Dan Seagren


(Senior Moments   November 5, 2006)
We seniors aren't always the best listeners although we have listened a lot, maybe too much, in our lifetime.…
Topics: Communication • Humor • Statistics