When Granny Listens

Some situations are indeed family affairs. But sometimes children would rather talk to someone other than mom or dad. Seniors at times are an alternate when the going is tough. Listen in.

Grandma, may I talk with you for a minute.

Of course. Anytime. I'm always available.

Thanks. I knew I could count on you. Something happened and I need some advice.

Go right ahead, Love. I'm not sure I have any good advice but go ahead.

I, I'm pregnant (she's fifteen years old).

Did I hear you right? You're pregnant? Zach?

I'm not sure, Gram. Zach and I had a little disagreement awhile ago and things cooled off. Now I'm . . .

I see. There's another boy involved, right?

Right. When Zach and I tangled, well, I hooked up with Ryan.

I see. You had sex with both. That complicates the situation, doesn't it?

It sure does. I really like Zach but I think I used Ryan to get even. I don't really like him that much but he's popular and, it, it just happened.

You wanted to tell me first because it is going to be difficult telling your folks, right?

Right. Mom doesn't care too much for Zach and she really doesn't know Ryan.
I hate to tell my folks. They'll kill me.

Now, my Dear. They won't kill you. But they will be quite unsettled I'm sure.

So, Gram, what do I do?

Well, Sweetheart, if you're really sure you're pregnant, how far along are you?

About two months, maybe a little more.

You've verified this with a physician?

Yes. She was very positive and gave me some advice on what to do. She was very helpful.

I'm glad she was so professional. She won't breathe a word to anyone, right?

Right. She knows my folks but assured me she'd not say a word.

Well, what do you think we should do now?

First of all, my parents have to know soon but I'm scared. They aren't as, as understanding as you are. Would you go with me when I tell them?

If you really want me to, I imagine I could. What are your thoughts now about the baby?

You mean my options: keep it, get an abortion or put it up for adoption? I really never thought about that when I gave in. We, we got too intimate, and well, it happened.

How would it be if I invited myself over for dinner tomorrow? Grandpa goes bowling and that would be a good excuse.

Oh, thank you so much. Granny, incidentally I, I'm leaning toward adoption. I think that's the best way to go, don't you?

See you tomorrow night. Bye.