Maintaining connections with other people is a major factor in optimal aging.  In this section, a number of contributors share their ideas and research on maintaining healthy relationships and establishing new ones. 


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47 articles found.

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Communication

 12 records found

If You Want a Story, Sit Down and I'll FInd One for You by Garrison Keillor


(May 20, 2022)
Storytelling is an art of necessity, which all of us engage in,, but not all do well…
Topics: Communication • Language, Meaning • Memories • Relationships


Be the Most Interesting Person in Any Conversation by Marcel Schwantes / Inc.


(July 31, 2021)
Get rid of the small talk…
Topics: Change • Communication • Learning • Relationships


Don't Be a Bad Listener by Stephanie Vozza / Fast Company


(July 16, 2021)
We come into conversations with our own agendas and low attention spans, but if you want to build better relationships you need to master active listening…
Topics: Advice, Guidance & Mentoring • Attitudes • Character, Integrity • Choices and Decision Making • Civility • Communication • Relationships


America Isn't Awkward Enough by Adam Kotsko / Zocalo Public Square


(July 15, 2021)
Our anti-social norms keep us from engaging in the uncomfortable moments that lead to real change…
Topics: Advice, Guidance & Mentoring • Attitudes • Change • Character, Integrity • Choices and Decision Making • Communication • COVID-19 • Relationships • Wellness


COVID's Impact on Language by James N. Watkins


(March 12, 2021)
New words and phrases; classic words and phrases dusted off…
Topics: Communication • COVID-19 • History • Language, Meaning • News


There are 7 more items for the category Communication and the Communication topic...See the whole list


Education

 1 record found

The Sunday School of Grandma and Grandpa by Barbara Greenleaf


(December 25, 2020)
Continuing religious education for children during the pandemic…
Topics: Communication • Coping • COVID-19 • Education • Learning • Opportunity • Parenting, Parents • Relationships • Wisdom



Faith, Religion & Spirituality

 1 record found

Who is On Your Mean-the-Most List? by Bill Nichols


(March 26, 2016)
And whose mean-the-most list would you be on?…
Topics: Attitudes • Communication • Faith • Relationships



General

 1 record found

She and I and You and Us, All Watching TV by Garrison Keillor


(July 15, 2022)
Personal identity is a complex matter and if a pronoun is all you need to validate you, fine. It’d help if you pasted your pronoun on your forehead, but if you feel that would marginalize you or stereotype you, I understand…
Topics: Beliefs • Change • Communication • Language, Meaning • Relationships • Trends



Holidays

 1 record found

How to Deal with Family During the Holidays by Ken Potts


(December 23, 2018)
The holidays don't always live up to what we imagine them to be…
Topics: Christmas • Civility • Communication • Family • Holidays • Holiday Season



Life Events

 1 record found

You Will Get it Wrong . . . But You Won't Make it Worse by Cariad Lloyd / The Guardian


(January 27, 2023)
16 ways to talk to people who are grieving…
Topics: Advice, Guidance & Mentoring • Circumstances, Life Events • Comfort & Consolation • Communication • Coping • Dying and Death • Loss & Grieving • Love • Optimal Aging • Relationships



News & Current Events

 2 records found

Calm Down, People, It's Going to be Okay by Garrison Keillor


(March 30, 2022)
Our problem isn’t polarization, it’s Twittification …
Topics: Civility • Communication • Current Events, News • Dysfunctional, Broken • Faith • Humor • Jesus • News • Politics • Popular Culture • Social Issues • Social Media • War


Kids, I Lost My Job by Ken Potts


(March 29, 2020)
Be open, honest with kids about your employment…
Topics: Communication • Coping • COVID-19 • Crisis • Current Events, News • Family • News • Parenting, Parents • Relationships • Unemployment • Work



Relationships

 27 records found

I Am Giving Up Anger, So Should You by Garrison Keillor


(January 26, 2023)
I am trying to give up anger. It’s poisonous and it has no effect other than to make the angerer feel bad and perhaps do something truly stupid…
Topics: Advice, Guidance & Mentoring • Attitudes • Character, Integrity • Communication • Optimal Aging • Relationships


Enough of That, Let's Talk About Happiness by Garrison Keillor


(April 21, 2022)
To create laughter out of ordinary tedium is a privilege. There’s nothing better.…
Topics: Communication • Contentment, Satsifaction • Humor • Relationships


Forget About Nut Cases, Let's Talk About What's Real by Garrison Keillor


(April 14, 2022)
There’s a lot of gossip and envy and animosity out there, don’t kid yourself, so all the more reason to hold fast to your friends…
Topics: Communication • Family • Optimal Aging • Relationships


Love, Marriage, Sex . . . by James N. Watkins


(February 10, 2022)
Jim updates his annual list of top posts, cartoons, and a video for Valentine's Day 2022…
Topics: Communication • Compassion • Contemplation, Insight • Holidays • Humor • Love • Relationships • Social Issues • Valentine's Day


Two Suggestions for Dealing with So-Called 'Conceited' People by Ken Potts


(August 28, 2021)
It's a matter of perspective…
Topics: Attitudes • Communication • Coping • Psychology, Psychological Health • Relationships


There are 22 more items for the category Relationships and the Communication topic...See the whole list


Technology

 1 record found

Ode to Joy by Stu Johnson


(April 9, 2020)
The human spirit responds to the COVID-19 pandemic…
Topics: Arts & Entertainment • Communication • Computers (and other Digital devices) • Coping • COVID-19 • Crisis • Current Events, News • History • Innovation, Invention, Creativity • Inspiration • Internet • Music • News • Opportunity • Religion • Technology