Maintaining connections with other people is a major factor in optimal aging.  In this section, a number of contributors share their ideas and research on maintaining healthy relationships and establishing new ones. 

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Aging, General

 2 records found

Agers Anonymous by James N. Watkins

Top Ten Wishes for My 50th Birthday by James N. Watkins

Arts & Entertainment

 3 records found

The Great Watkinso by James N. Watkins

The Force Awakens Universal Questions by James N. Watkins

Lessons from Back to the Future by James N. Watkins


 1 record found

'Twas the Night Before Voting by James N. Watkins


 5 records found

COVID's Impact on Language by James N. Watkins

Flaming Emails and Comments by James N. Watkins

Patron Saint of Freelance Writers by James N. Watkins

The Truth About Lying by James N. Watkins

Defining Words, Defining Morality by James N. Watkins

Faith, Religion & Spirituality

 22 records found

Will You Get a Do-Over? by James N. Watkins

Can You Love Christ and Hate His Church? by James N. Watkins

They Don't Make Them Like They Used To by James N. Watkins

Forty Days of Hope and Humor by James N. Watkins

Why? Why? Why? by James N. Watkins

There are 17 more items for the category Faith, Religion & Spirituality by James N. Watkins...See the whole list


 3 records found

Through the Years by James N. Watkins

Life Matters by James N. Watkins

From Womb to Tomb by James N. Watkins

Government & Politics

 8 records found

You Want Me to Pray for Whom? by James N. Watkins

The Strain of Polarization by James N. Watkins

Divided by Politics by James N. Watkins

Watkins for President 2020 by James N. Watkins

The Last Candidate Standing by James N. Watkins

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Health & Wellness

 10 records found

Hope and Mental Health by James N. Watkins

Praise the Lord and Pass the Prozac by Faith A. Watkins and David N. Watkins

Overcoming Depression by James N. Watkins

Dealing with Suicidal Thoughts by James N. Watkins

What Would Jesus Say About Coronavirus? by James N. Watkins

There are 5 more items for the category Health & Wellness by James N. Watkins...See the whole list


 4 records found

Hope Amid Horror by James N. Watkins

Celebrating Dependence Day by James N. Watkins

Memories of 9/11 by James N. Watkins

James Robert Watkins: Soul Brother by James N. Watkins


 38 records found

The 12 Sites of Christmas (2022) by James N. Watkins

Happy Father's Day 2022 by James N. Watkins

Happy Mother's Day 2022 by James N. Watkins

Mr. Patrick Would Not Be Happy by James N. Watkins

Lent and Easter 2022 by James N. Watkins

There are 33 more items for the category Holidays by James N. Watkins...See the whole list


 4 records found

Olympic Office Events by James N. Watkins

Welcome Summer by James N. Watkins

Don't Be An April Fool by James N. Watkins

It Could be Worse by James N. Watkins


 2 records found

Dare to be Ordinary by James N. Watkins

Happy 8/28 Day! by James N. Watkins

Life Events

 7 records found

Squeezing Good Out of Bad by James N. Watkins

Happy 70th Birthday to Me! by James N. Watkins

Thanks for Nothing! by James N. Watkins

Is Depression a Gift? by James N. Watkins

Commencement 2020 by James N. Watkins

50 Praises Between Bed and Bathroom by James N. Watkins

In This World You Will Have Trouble by James N. Watkins


 1 record found

True Colors Shining Through by James N. Watkins

News & Current Events

 13 records found

A Supreme Decision by James N. Watkins

Is It a 'Life' or a 'Choice'? by James N. Watkins

Responding to the Afghan Airport Terrorist Attack by James N. Watkins

We're All Suffering 'Corona Hangover' by James N. Watkins

'It' is Not 'Christian' by James N. Watkins

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 16 records found

LGBTQ(IA+) and B-I-B-L-E by James N. Watkins

Love, Marriage, Sex . . . by James N. Watkins

Humble Thoughts on 'Gay Pride' by James N. Watkins

Happy Mother's Day! by James N. Watkins

Coming Out by James N. Watkins

There are 11 more items for the category Relationships by James N. Watkins...See the whole list


 1 record found

A Tragic Trend by James N. Watkins


 1 record found

Happy May Day! by James N. Watkins

Work, Employment

 1 record found

Am I a 'Feminist'? Yes and no! by James N. Watkins